INSPIRED LIVING: How I created a Lasting, LOVE, Relationship

Every time you take an action to achieve what you want coming from the fear of not having what you want, you are sabotaging yourself, you are undermining yourself, you are hating yourself.?

I should know, so much of what I did in my life to achieve what I wanted came from the fear of not having what I wanted.. All fear every did for me was push away from me what I wanted. This is especially true in the areas of relationships. I had a graveyard filled with so many failed relationships that the EPA wanted to fine me for polluting the environment.

From my first relationship through fifteen other serious relationships, everything I did in those relationships came from the fear of losing those relationships and because I feared losing them, I lost all of them.?

My current relationship turned out way differently,?

I entered this relationship 9 years ago and from day one, I have come totally from love.? That means I never say or do anything for Vona coming from fear.? I am always true to myself even if that means, from time to time, she doesn't like me being true to myself, which is rare.

After losing my last relationship before meeting Vona, my fear of losing relationships was burned out of my system forever.

After my last relationship failed (caused by fear) I made up my mind I wouldn't chase, pursue or convince a woman to be with me. I made up my mind that I didn't want to spend one more second around any woman who didn't want to be around me.???

By the time Vona met me, she felt the same way about men,? As a result, we are with each other every sacred moment of our lives by choice, not by default or out of fear of being alone.?

Because I have no fear of losing Vona and she has no fear of losing me, we never do anything for each other we don't truly want to do. We both know in our relationship, we love ourselves first and love each other second. And the more we learn to love ourselves, the more love we have to give each other.?

In our relationship, love is allowing the person we love to be totally unlike ourselves. And because we allow each other to be totally unlike ourselves, our relationship has a passion and richness to it that few people enjoy in their relationship with the person they love... This is a result of? not letting fear dictate our actions. In fact, in our relationship,? the person with the least fear leads. Sometimes it is mean I lead, others times it is Vona leading, coming from love..

This is a recent picture of Vona at her son's wedding.

Source: http://encwor.blogspot.com/2013/01/how-i-created-lasting-love-relationship.html

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